Still Face Experiment

…Again, all of this is to drive home the importance of understanding that our need to connect with others is hardwired into our basic existence. It’s pretty much a matter of life and death. If we aren’t able to form bonds, we do not thrive.

Attachment Theory, Connection, Couples CounselingJay WickSeptember 26, 2018Focus Therapyattachment, attachment theory, relationships, couples therapy, marriage counselingComment

Attachment Needs

When our attachment needs are triggered it’s more often than not about wants and desires, hurt feelings, longing for closeness and support, needing to know you are important, that you matter to your partner. But, usually those needs are hard to express to a partner you feel might not get it. Or, it might not even really register with you at the time that this is what you’re actually asking for.

Connection, Resources, Couples CounselingJay WickJune 6, 2018Focus Therapyattachment, relationships, couples therapy, marriage counselingComment